WANITA

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19 KEISTIMEWAAN WANITA

1. Doa wanita itu lebih makbul daripada lelaki kerana sifat penyayang yang lebih kuat daripada lelaki. Ketika ditanya kepada Rasulullah SAW akan hal tersebut, jawab baginda , ” Ibu lebih penyayang daripada bapa dan doa orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia.”

2. Wanita yang solehah (baik) itu lebih baik daripada 1000 lelaki yang soleh.

3. Barangsiapa yang menggembirakan anak perempuannya, darjatnya seumpama orang yang sentiasa menangis kerana takutkan Allah .Dan orang yang takutkan Allah SWT akan diharamkan api neraka ke atas tubuhnya.

4. Wanita yang tinggal bersama anak-anaknya akan tinggal bersama aku (Rasulullah SAW) di dalam syurga.

5. Barangsiapa membawa hadiah (barang makanan dari pasar ke rumah lalu diberikan kepada keluarganya) maka pahalanya seperti melakukan amalan bersedekah.Hendaklah mendahulukan anak perempuan daripada anak lelaki. Maka barangsiapa yang menyukakan anak perempuan seolah-olah dia memerdekakan anak Nabi Ismail.

6. Syurga itu di bawah telapak kaki ibu.

7. Barangsiapa mempunyai tiga anak perempuan atau tiga saudara perempuan atau dua anak perempuan atau dua saudara perempuan lalu dia bersikap ihsan dalam pergaulan dengan mereka dan mendidik mereka dengan penuh rasa takwa serta sikap bertanggungjawab, maka baginya adalah syurga.

8. Apabila memanggil akan dirimu dua orang ibu bapamu, maka jawablah panggilan ibumu terlebih dahulu.

9. Daripada Aisyah r.a.” Barangsiapa yang diuji dengan sesuatu daripada anak-anak perempuannya lalu dia berbuat baik kepada mereka, maka mereka akan menjadi penghalang baginya daripada api neraka.

10. Wanita yang taat berkhidmat kepada suaminya akan tertutuplah pintu-pintu neraka dan terbuka pintu-pintu syurga. Masuklah dari mana-mana pun pintu yang dia kehendaki dengan tidak dihisab.

11. Wanita yang taat pada suaminya, maka semua ikan-ikan di laut, burung di udara, malaikat di langit, matahari dan bulan semua beristighfar baginya selama mana dia taat kepada suaminya serta menjaga solat dan puasanya.

12. Aisyah r.a berkata, “Aku bertanya kepada Rasulullah, siapakah yang lebih besar haknya terhadap wanita?” Jawab Rasulullah SAW “Suaminya.” ” Siapa pula berhak terhadap lelaki?” Jawab Rasulullah SAW, “Ibunya.”

13. Perempuan apabila sembahyang lima waktu, puasa di bulan Ramadhan, memelihara kehormatannya serta kepada suaminya, masuklah dia dari pintu syurga mana sahaja yang dikehendaki.

14. Tiap perempuan yang menolong suaminya dalam urusan agama, maka Allah SWT memasukkan dia ke dalam syurga terlebih dahulu daripada suaminya (10,000 tahun).

15. Apabila seseorang perempuan mengandung janin dalam rahimnya,maka beristighfarlah para malaikat untuknya. Allah SWT mencatatkan baginya setiap hari dengan 1,000 kebajikan dan menghapuskan darinya 1,000 kejahatan.

16. Apabila seseorang perempuan mulai sakit hendak bersalin, maka Allah SWT mencatatkan baginya pahala orang yang berjihad pada jalan Allah.

17. Apabila seseorang perempuan melahirkan anak, keluarlah dia dari dosa-dosa seperti keadaan ibunya melahirkannya.

18. Apabila telah lahir anak lalu disusui, maka bagi ibu itu setiap satu tegukan daripada susunya diberi satu kebajikan.

19. Apabila semalaman seorang ibu tidak tidur dan memelihara anaknya yang sakit, maka Allah SWT memberinya pahala seperti memerdekakan 70 orang hamba dengan ikhlas untuk membela agama Allah SWT.

6 JENIS WANITA MALANG

“Jangan engkau kahwini wanita yang enam, jangan yang Ananah, yang Mananah, dan yang Hananah, dan jangan engkau kahwini yang Hadaqah, yang Baraqah dan yang Syadaqah.”

1.Wanita Ananah:banyak mengeluh dan mengadu dan tiap saat memperalatkan sakit atau buat-buat sakit.

2.Wanita Mananah:suka membangkit-bangkit terhadap suami. Wanita ini sering menyatakan, “Aku membuat itu keranamu”.

3.Wanita Hananah: menyatakan kasih sayangnya kepada suaminya yang lain, yang dikahwininya sebelum ini atau kepada anaknya dari suami yang lain.

4.Wanita Hadaqah: melemparkan pandangan dan matanya pada tiap sesuatu, lalu menyatakan keinginannya untuk memiliki barang itu dan memaksa suaminya untuk membelinya.

5.Wanita Baraqah: ada 2 makna, pertama. yang sepanjang hari mengilatkan dan menghias mukanya, kedua, dia marah ketika makan dan tidak mahu makan kecuali sendirian dan diasingkannya bahagiannya..

6.Wanita Syadaqah: banyak cakap tidak menentu lagi bising.

Strain vs Control

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Sociologists have often wondered why people commit crime. The Strain and Control theories have both linked crime with conformism, however, in opposite ways. Strain theorists believe that crime occurs because of the American need to conform. Robert K.Merton, a member of the Chicago School, did not buy into the theory that crime only occurred in slums. He “outlined a very different social process- one that involved conformity to conventional cultural values- that he felt produced high rates of crime and deviance” (Lilly et. al 53). The Control theory contrasted Strain by saying that people committed crimes when they strayed from conformism. Albert J. Reiss, also of the Chicago school, said that “delinquency results when there is a relative absence of internalized norms and rules governing behavior in conformity with the norms of the social system to which legal penalties are attached, a breakdown in previously established controls, and/or a relative absence of or conflict in social rules or techniques for enforcing such behavior in the social groups or institutions of which the person is a member” (81). These theories both took into account the society within which the deviant/criminal lives, but Strain theory focused on the negative aspects of this influence.
Strain theory said that “all Americans have the same cultural goals linked to both material achievement and social status, but not all Americans have the equal means to achieve these goals” (notes). According to this theory, there are “institutional arrangements that provide for success”, and they include family, religion, economy, education and politics (notes). This theory viewed America as a highly competitive society in which the less fortunate are left behind. Strain is felt because they lack equal opportunity and so they adapt to this reality in illegal ways, such as drug dealing, stealing and gangs. These individuals felt pressure from their society to conform to certain ideals and that is what drove them to become criminals. A big pressure discussed by the Strain theorists is the “American Dream”, and it is the cause of much stress in most people’s lives.
The “American Dream” is the universal goal of achievement and success among Americans. For the poor, it is rather like a nightmare, according to the Strain theory. “Poor people are not taught to be satisfied with their lot but rather are instructed to pursue the American dream; through hard work, it is said, even the lowliest among us can rise from rags to riches”. These ambitions have consequences for the poor because “the social structure limits access to the goal of success through legitimate means (e.g., college education, corporate employment, family connections)” (53). Therefore, crime is a way of life for many Americans because it helps them reach the American dream. They chase after a dream that seems impossible to attain. According to Merton, strained people adapt to their reality in 4 different ways: innovation, ritualism, retreatism and rebellion.
Innovationists usually use legitimate ways to achieve success but resort to illegitimate means when they find their window of opportunity temporarily blocked for whatever reason. Ritualists follow the norms of society, but they scale down their aspirations lower than the norms and avoid taking risks. Retreatists escape the norms of society through such means as drinking and drugs. Rebels reject the norms and set up their own rules of how to live (54-55).
Control theory believed that all of this deviation can be solved with a proper upbringing (notes). This theory was started in the 1950’s when the trend was a focus on the family and parenting. Reiss’ “push and pull” theory attempted to explain why people commit crime: “a variety of factors – including biophysical forces, psychological pressures, and social conditions such as poverty – might ‘push’ a person toward crime or delinquency, and other factors – such as illegitimate opportunities – may ‘pull’ one toward misbehavior” (85). Reiss also believed that a child’s family heavily determined whether or not the child would become a delinquent. He said, “there is social control over the child’s behavior when the family milieu is structured so that the child identifies with family members...and accepts the norms”(82). If the child does accept the norms of his family, it is feared that he might become a part of a delinquent group. “The delinquent peer group is here viewed as a functional consequence of the failure of personal and social controls” (82). A sub-theory of Control theory is the Self-Control theory, which focuses on restraint.
Michael Gottfredson and Travis Hirschi developed Self-Control theory which said that in order to avoid criminality, an individual must maintain continuous bonds with “family, school, work, everyday activities, and beliefs” (102). Neglect in parenting will lead to the criminality of a child later in life because the child will turn to less conventional places to learn their values (103). Internal sanctionings including morals, values, conscience and respect must also be present within an individual in order to maintain the norms of society (notes). A lack of this regulation forces an individual to look to other means for gratification. “Crime provides short-term gratification, such as excitement, small amounts of money, and relief from situational aggravations” (102). In other words, people desire ways to pleasure themselves, and if they have not been taught how to find pleasure in conventional ways, they will find it through illegitimate means.
Intervention for this delinquency must be done on a community level through education and reintegration. Throwing minor offenders in jail does not solve anything. In fact, “labeling and treating lawbreakers as criminals have the unanticipated consequence of creating the very behavior they were meant to prevent”. A criminal must be forgiven and given a second chance or else they will feel trapped in a criminal way of life forever. “The degrading influences of prison life and contact with vulgar criminals…cause criminaloids who have committed their initial offenses with repugnances and hesitation, to develop later into habitual criminals” (115). A delinquent who is repeatedly told that he is worthless will start to believe it and then live up to that label. This is called the self-fulfilling prophecy, and it can be prevented if society develops programs to reintegrate former criminals into society (117).
The Strain and Control theories both developed ideas springing from conformism, but at either ends of the spectrum. Strain believes that conformism prevents people from having equal chances of success in life, while Control believes that conformism contains values that form a net that will save individuals from turning to illegitimate activities. People must walk a fine line when it comes to conformism because too much will result in a mass of robot-like people with no individualism, but too little will prevent communities from forming between people. It is important to learn from parents and teachers but it is also important to think for yourself, which means that people must be free to choose and be wrong sometimes. After all, mistakes are how people learn to be successful!

Origins - Cosmic Beginnings And Human Ends - Where Science And Religion Meet

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QUESTION #1: What are your views on cosmic beginnings, particularly with reference to the origins of the universe, of life, and of homo sapiens?


THE ORIGIN OF THE UNIVERSE

For one who feels that the Big Bang cosmology is not well supported by the observational evidence, and for one who suspects that the Universe may not have had a beginning at all, any discussion of "cosmic beginnings" with respect to the "origin" of the Universe must take on a rather odd look. If the Universe could be "actual", i.e. if it could have arisen through some process of physics, then its beginning could be considered to be a "happening in time" and a discussion of "origins" would be in order. But if, as I have suggested, the Universe might be apparitional, rather than actual, then the discussion of origins must take the form of an investigation into the nature of the apparition. We must know what might be behind the apparition, what are the consequences of such an apparition, and whether they correspond to what we see. Also, we should see whether or not the notion that the Universe is apparitional might help to explain some of the things which heretofore we have had to take for granted.

For instance, Newton's laws of motion take inertia for granted. Special relativity takes space and time for granted. General relativity takes gravity for granted. Quantum electrodynamics takes electricity for granted as well as Heisenberg's uncertainty principle and Pauli's Verbot (Pauli's exclusion principle). But must we take all this for granted? Or can we, with the Advaita Vedantins, put an apparitional first cause under our physics?

Although in the Big Bang models everything we see must be traced back to the original fireball, in a Steady State model everything must be traced back to the primordial hydrogen, made of electricity and inertia, and falling together by gravity to galaxies and stars. And the question is: can we understand that this primordial hydrogen with its gravity, electricity, and inertia could arise apparitionally from what underlies the apparition? And can we, in the light of this apparitional model, understand why the electron doesn't sit down on the proton in a hydrogen atom (in spite of the enormous electrical attraction between them), and why the spin-one-half particles obey Fermi-Dirac statistics? (i.e. why they obey Pauli's Verbot?)

To ask what might exist behind such an apparition is to ask what might exist in the absence of matter, energy, space and time, and it is easy to get an answer to that question in terms of negation. In the absence of time we are left with the changeless, since change can take place only in time. And since smallness and dividedness can exist only in space, in the absence of space we are left with the infinite, the undivided.

So what I am suggesting is that by seeing what we see as if in space and time, we might have mistaken the changeless, the infinite, the undivided for something else. And the question is whether that something else could be expected to take the form of the Universe as we see it. I am suggesting that the nature of the apparition is seeing what we see as if in space and time, and that what's behind the apparition is the changeless, the infinite, the undivided. So our remaining question is: what would be the consequences of such an apparition, and do these consequences correspond to what we see?

Now this apparitional causation, as I call it, was analyzed a long time ago in India by the Advaita Vedantins and the Buddhists, and they came to some very interesting conclusions. They pointed out that in order to mistake a rope for a snake you must fail to see the rope rightly (as in the twilight). This they called the veiling power of tamas. Then you must jump to the wrong conclusion (that it's a snake). This they called the projecting power of rajas . But also they pointed out that you must have seen the rope to start with (in the partial light of twilight) or the mistake might have taken some more arbitrary form. This they called the revealing power of sattva. The length and diameter of the rope are simply misinterpreted as the length and diameter of a snake.

This apparitional causation was referred to by the Vedantins as vivarta , and it was contrasted with parinama , transformational causation, (as when milk is transformed into buttermilk, or as when gravitational energy is transformed into kinetic energy in the downward swing of a pendulum). What we ordinarily think of nowadays as causation is what the Vedantins called parinama . It involves the transformation of energy from one form to another without any change in the amount. And it is governed by the conservation laws. The energy that goes into a process at the beginning comes out at the end. The form may change but not the amount. Now, since the Universe is made out of energy, it cannot have arisen by transformation, except from energy. It cannot arise from nothing. You can get a Universe out of a Universe by transformational causation, but you can't get it out of nothing. However, it can arise from the underlying existence by apparition.

So if the "origin" of the Universe is apparitional, and if the nature of the apparition is seeing what we see as if in space and time, and if what's behind the apparition is the changeless, the infinite, the undivided, then the consequences of such an apparition would be that we would see the changeless as if changing, the infinite as if finite, and the undivided as if divided. But, because of the revealing power, we must have seen the changeless in the changing, and that is what I see as inertia; we must have seen the infinite in the finite, and that is what I see as the electrical charge of the minuscule particles; and we must have seen the undivided in the divided, and that is what I see as gravity. And thus far these consequences do correspond to what we see. And they also provide a possible explanation for gravity, electricity and inertia, which heretofore we have had to take for granted.

As I see it, the only reason the Universe is energetically wound up is because it is apparitional. (In an apparition the underlying existence must show through.) Otherwise the dispersed particles could stay dispersed. What would be the need for gravity if the undivided didn't have to show through in the apparition? And the minuscule particles could remain uncharged. What would be the need for the electrical charge if the infinite didn't have to show through in the apparition? And why should matter show inertia? Why should it fight every change in its state of motion except for the fact that the changeless has to show in the changes of the apparition? As I see it, gravity, electricity, and inertia are simply the nature of the underlying existence showing through in the apparition through what the Vedantins call the revealing power.

We see (as a pair of opposites) a gravitational "plurality" against an electrical "duality". That is, the gravitational rest energy of the proton is related to its separation in the gravitational field from all the rest of the matter in the observable Universe, whereas its electrical rest energy is related only to its smallness in the electrical field and to its separation from a single electron. But if the Universe is apparitional, something must prevent the demise of the electrical duality in the presence of the gravitational plurality. As I see it, that is why matter obeys Heisenberg's uncertainty principle. And likewise, something must prevent the demise of the gravitational plurality in the presence of the duality. And that, as I see it, is why spin-one-half particles obey Fermi-Dirac statistics, or Pauli's Verbot. (The demise of the electrical duality is not prevented for an electron and a positron or for a proton and an anti-proton. But in the presence of the gravitational dissimilarity of the electron and the proton in the primordial hydrogen, it is prevented by Heisenberg's uncertainty principle.) Similarly, two spin-one-half particles (i.e. protons, electrons, and neutrons) in the presence of that spin-duality cannot occupy the same energy state. (That is, they obey Fermi-Dirac statistics, i.e. Pauli's Verbot.) That's what prevents the gravitational collapse of a neutron star.

As I see it, the reason we had to take space and time, gravity, electricity and inertia, as well as Heisenberg's uncertainly principle and Pauli's exclusion principle for granted is simply because they all arise by apparition and not by any transformation. So in the absence of an understanding of the "first cause" we had no model on the basis of which we could understand them.

If there is anything to this suggestion, i.e. that the Universe might have arisen by apparition--that the first cause might be apparitional (and it's certainly counter- intuitive), then it would seem to me that in order to avoid representing any change in the changeless it must have arisen as pairs of opposites so that the total linear momentum, the total angular momentum and the total electrical charge of the observable Universe should be zero. If it could be shown that there is an overall residual momentum or electrical charge, I should deem this suggestion to have failed. And if, as this suggestion seems to imply, hydrogen is the primordial apparition, then it would seem that neither the proton nor the electron should decay. If they arise by apparition, how could they decay by transformation within that apparition? If it can be shown that the proton does indeed decay, then I should suspect that this suggestion may have failed.

It will be of no use to suggest that this is metaphysics and need not be taken seriously. Anything which influences the existence or behavior of what we see as matter is within the domain of physics.

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STEADY STATE vs. BIG BANG

Since this apparitional cosmology rather favors a Steady State model over the Big Bang Models, perhaps I should say something about what drives the cosmic expansion. Perhaps, also, I should discuss the source of the microwave background radiation and the "new hydrogen" needed to keep up the cosmic density. Then, too, I should say something about the helium abundance and about what has come to be called the "dark matter".


Cosmic Expansion

Observationally, what we see is that all the distant galaxies seem to be running away from us. And the simplest and most straightforward explanation is that long ago there was this Big Bang explosion and that that is what drives the cosmic expansion. (In the Big Bang models, this explosion stands without explanation.) In this Steady State model, on the other hand, the energy which drives the cosmic expansion is simply the energy of the radiation which is lost in the expansion. As the galaxies and stars condense, their gravitational energy is transformed to radiation and radiated away into the expanding spaces of the Universe. If the energy of the radiation is lost in the expansion, then it must drive the expansion.


Background Radiation

In this Steady State model it is the conditions at the border of the observable Universe imposed by the expansion that are the source of both the background radiation and the "new hydrogen". As seen by us, the radiation from matter seen to be approaching the border is red-shifted approaching zero energy. But if the radiation energy approaches zero, so does the particle energy and the particle mass. Then, since radiation going through a field of low-mass particles would be thermalized to 3° Kelvin, it would appear to us as the background radiation. The amount of 3° Kelvin radiation predicted by this model matches what we measure. The amount predicted by the Big Bang model is at least one order of magnitude too high.


"New Hydrogen"

Also, near the border, where the mass approaches zero, the momentum of the particles must also approach zero, and with it, our uncertainty in that momentum. (You can't have a big uncertainty about a very small momentum.) Then, by Heisenberg's uncertainty principle, if our uncertainty in the momentum approaches zero, our uncertainty in where the particles are must approach infinity. The hydrogen simply "tunnels" back in.


Helium Abundance

For the Big Bang models, the observed helium abundance is far too low unless most of the matter of the Universe involved in the fireball explosion was of such a nature that it could not be made into helium. It has therefore been suggested by some proponents of the Big Bang model that some 90% to 99% of the matter in the Universe is of such a nature that it responds only to gravity, and not to any of the other forces such as electricity and magnetism which might allow us to detect it. This "dark matter", as it is called, is thought to surround the visible galaxies, but not to reside within them. And the problem is, that if it responds only to gravity, why doesn't it all fall in?


Dark Matter

For a Steady State model, there is no problem about the dark matter being ordinary matter, because the visible galaxies could be expected to be surrounded by what I call "hovering layers" of ordinary matter blown out by the stellar winds. When a cluster of stars condenses from a cloud of gas, some 90% to 99% of the material in the cloud could be expected to be blown away by the stellar winds of the cluster. Since the diameters of these hovering layers may be five to ten times the diameters of the associated galaxies, their densities might be well below one percent of the densities of the associated galaxies. The detection of this material might be rendered problematical simply by its low density.

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THE ORIGIN OF LIFE

For a Big Bang cosmology, in which the early Universe was extremely hot, a discussion of the origin of life is of course appropriate, since life could not have been with us from the beginning. But for a Steady State model, in which the Universe is without beginning, perhaps life itself could be without beginning. However, the question then arises: how could it spread from solar system to solar system or from galaxy to galaxy? Somehow it seems that life must have had a start, that somehow life must arise spontaneously from non-living matter. Yet thus far there is no evidence for this.

Pasteur thought that he had shown that life does not arise from non-living matter but only from previous life. Darwin seems to have taken the other view, namely, that it might have arisen from "some warm pool". The evidence, of course, is simply that life does exist on this planet, which presumably had a beginning; so if life didn't come from elsewhere, it must have arisen here. But how? What could pull non-living matter across the border into life?

Natural selection as Darwin sketched it is a very good mechanism for selecting between two or more genetic programmings, but it makes no suggestion as to the origin of the programs. And as yet this is an unsolved problem. But how about the origin of sentiency and intelligence? Could they have arisen from inert matter?


Sentiency

For any cosmological model in which the Universe is considered to be "actual", the problem of the origin of sentiency and intelligence is insoluble. But if the Universe is apparitional, sentiency is in it from the word "go". Even the atoms are "sentient". We have senses for the perception of gravity, kinetic energy, radiation, electricity and magnetism, because the individual protoplasmic cells can respond to these same five kinds of energy. And the cells can respond to them because the atoms respond to them. The atoms themselves respond to gravity, kinetic energy, radiation, electricity and magnetism. The plumb bob "knows" where the Earth is, and the electron "knows" where the proton is. Sentiency is in this from the word "go", because the underlying existence is "involved" in what we see and must show through.

It is hopeless to expect that something like sentiency or intelligence, or anything, for that matter, could arise by "evolution" (as a rose evolves from a bud), unless it was first put in by "involution". The reason the oak tree can "evolve" from the acorn is because it was first put in the acorn through "involution" by the parent trees. But in the case of the tree and the acorn, the involution is by transformational causation, parinama. Whereas, in the case of the underlying existence and the Universe, the involution is by apparitional causation, or vivarta . What underlies the Universe is involved by apparition in us and what we see. And since what underlies all this is infinite, there is no knowing what may evolve. (1)

The expectation that sentiency and intelligence might arise from "inert matter" is contrary to all the experience of our race. But matter is not inert. It is "ert", (it moves by itself) because what underlies the apparition shows through. And the notion that what is more might evolve from what is less is beyond the domain of reason.
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1: c.f. Teilhard de Chardin: "In the world, nothing could ever burst forth as final across the different thresholds successively traversed by evolution (however critical they be) which has not already existed in an obscure and primordial way..." (Phenomenon of Man. New York: Harper and Row,1955. Book One, Chapter Three, Section I B.)


Intelligence

So sentiency arises by apparition and is with us from the word "go". But how about intelligence? Intelligence, as we know it, is associated with the egos of poly-celled organisms, like ourselves, who have brains. And brains come down through a long transformational past. Even our individual brains have a transformational past from a single cell, to where we are now. Each of our bodies is made up of a very great number of cells, and we have no awareness of the egos of the individual cells. Yet each of us, at the time of conception, was a one-celled organism without a brain. However, that single cell had a complete human form transformationally involved in its gene code through the grace of our parents.

So, although sentiency might arise apparitionally, it looks as though intelligence arises transformationally. It looks as though intelligence arises from sentiency as a genetic invention of the ego. It looks as though intelligence, like egotism, is a genetic invention which favors survival. And it looks as though what we proudly think of as our advanced state of intelligence was forced upon us by the use of tools and language.

So the underlying existence shows through in what we see. What difference does it make whether you think of it as The Formless, or call it Mother, or Father? The question that remains is this: does the pull of the underlying existence (the changeless, the undivided, the infinite) pull matter across the border from the non-living to the living? Does it pull sentiency to intelligence? And does it pull the saints to final beatitude?

Through the discrimination between plus and minus in the electrical duality, that oneness holds the electrons near the protons in the hydrogen. Through the discrimination between up and down in the gravitational plurality, that oneness falls the hydrogen together into clouds. And through the discrimination between spin-up and spin-down, it pulls the particles together in pairs to make molecules and the entire atomic table.

Does that oneness, through molecular discrimination, pull what we see as matter into life? Does it, through the discriminations of the ego, pull sentiency to intelligence? And does it, through the discrimination between the real and the make-believe, pull the emotions of the saints to the goal?

We are like Xerox machines looking for Xerox machines to copy. And because the underlying existence shows through in us, we are pulled toward peace and love and freedom, and we look for them in others. If we see a special manifestation of peace and serenity, or of love and happiness, or of strength and freedom, or of compassion, our hearts open and we are drawn to it. All animals, when they mate, pick out species characteristics, and so do we. It is probably our tendency to breed in this direction that has separated us so far from other animals. And in this tendency, I see the hope for our future.

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THE ORIGIN OF HOMO SAPIENS

About the origin of Homo sapiens, it should be said that although formerly it was considered a great mystery, and there was a great deal of talk about the missing link, (that is, what happened between the chimps and ourselves), by now this mystery has been largely cleared up. And what happened between the chimps and us has been fairly well investigated by Sir Alister Hardy, Desmond Morris, Elaine Morgan, Leon P. La Lumiere, Jr., and others. (2) It now seems more than likely that a few of our chimp-like ancestors, dwelling in a mountainous area of northeast Africa some ten or fifteen million years ago, were cut off from the mainland by a rise in sea level which reduced our homeland to an island. Gradually, as our local jungles dwindled, we were forced more and more to forage at the beach. And what I should like to say here is that it is what happened at that beach that led up to this Parliament of Religions. It is what happened at that beach that separated us from the chimpanzees and led to our propensity for science and religion.

Often in my youth it was suggested by the anthropologists that first we somehow (miraculously?) developed this big brain and then invented language and the use of tools. But no one thinks like that now. Nowadays it is more or less taken for granted that we were forced by our situation to the use of tools and language and that that is what imposed on us the need for a bigger brain.
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2: Morgan, Elaine. The Aquatic Ape . New York: Stein and Day, 1982.


Tools

Anyone who has foraged at the beach knows that the easily available protein supply comes mostly packaged in calcium carbonate shells which require to be broken open with a stone. Any chimp could see that. Louis Leaky found that the early stone tools of our ancestors in Olduvai Gorge were made of "stream-rounded boulders". Why? Because we came from the beach, where all the stones were rounded and where we used them for procuring food.


Language

And surely it was there at that beach, where our body language failed in the surf, that we were forced to use speech. Elaine Morgan, in The Aquatic Ape , rightly points out that speech cannot arise until breath control arises, and breath control arises in the water. We already had our body-language, which, as Desmond Morris points out in The Naked Ape, is easily understood by the chimps, the gorillas, the orangs and ourselves. But what good is dancing in the sea? We needed another means of communication more suitable in the water. All the other animals on this planet who talk (namely the dolphins and the whales), do it in the sea.


Aquatic Adaptations

Although the temperature of the water at our beach was nearly 90° F, the shift from the jungle to the beach must have imposed on us a severe pressure to change. We needed feet instead of hands on our lower extremities for paddling sand and water. We needed a cushion on our buttocks for sitting on the sand. We needed fat under the skin for buoyancy and streamlining in the water, and we didn't need our fur. We grew hair on our heads for the sake of children in the water, and learned to fight with our fists to protect them from the sharks. It is fortunate for us that the dolphins beat us back to the sea and reprogrammed the sharks against blunt punches. No land animal will yield to your fists.


Neoteny

Now one of the genetic mechanisms which we used in our forced adjustment to the beach is what is called neoteny , the retaining into later life of juvenile characteristics. We delayed the invasion of our childhood by our more adult point of view. House cats, like most animals, reach the adult stage in about a year, and the insatiable curiosity of the kitten dies away. But not for us. Our brain continues to grow, and our insatiable curiosity lingers on. Out of that lingering curiosity arose science and religion. It is our lingering curiosity that led up to this Parliament.


Science and Religion

We are the children of children who never grow up. And it is the lingering wonder of childhood which gave rise to Newton's Principia, to relativity, to quantum mechanics, and to all the religions of the world. It was there at that beach that we learned the breath control of the yogis. It was there at that beach that we learned to talk and to sing. Our hymns and our prayers and our yearning to know arose at that beach and follow us still. And the beauty and freedom of childhood follow us still. But in order that our childhood could be free, the responsibility for our upkeep has been thrown on our parents. The prolonging of our youth has imposed on us the prolonging of our parenting. Our youth and our parenting are not like those of other animals. Like them, we have genetic programming to see us through our adult phase and to persuade us to pass on the genetic line. But unlike them we have genetic programming to see us through a prolonged childhood and a prolonged period of parenting which is required to support it. Children don't fulfill the prime directives of the genetic programming, namely, to keep ourselves alive and well, and to pass on the genetic code. Our parents do it for us. Out of this beauty and freedom of our childhood, monasticism arose. "...Turned from home and toil and kindred, leaving all for His dear sake." The monks and nuns neither earn their keep, nor pass on the genetic line, but continue instead in the wonder of childhood: "What or Who is beyond what I see?"


QUESTION #3: What do you think should be the relationship between religion and science?

I feel that religion and science should meet and shake hands. But it won't happen until the first cause is put under our physics. If some important (well known) physicist, say John Archibald Wheeler or Stephen Hawking, were to notice that relativity and quantum mechanics are evidence that the Universe is apparitional rather than actual, then the news would spread world wide in a week. I used to hope that Richard Feynman would notice it, but he is gone.

The mystics already see that the world is apparitional. Regardless of what they say from the pulpit or what they write in their books, they all see the Universe as apparitional because they all agree that faith is at the root of spiritual practice. And if the world were actual, faith would have no part in it. When milk has been made into buttermilk, faith that it's milk will get you nowhere. But if you have mistaken a rope for a snake, faith that it's a rope ends the problem.

Fritjof Capra wrote a very interesting book called the Tao of Physics in which he points out similarities in the language of the mystics and the physicists. Now as I see it, the reason for these similarities is that they are both describing an apparitional world. In an actual transformation, like milk into buttermilk, there is no confusion of language. First there is milk, then there is a process, and finally there is buttermilk. But if one has mistaken a rope for a snake and I ask, "Is there a snake?", and you answer, "Yes", then I say, "Show me!" If you answer, "No", I say, "Kick it!" This sort of confusion runs all through the writings of the mystics and the scientists simply because the world is apparitional. If the mystics and the scientists could agree that the first cause behind what we see is apparitional, we could all sit down together and have a talk--we could meet and shake hands.

The mystics take existence for granted and want to get from "here to there", (to see behind the apparition), and that is possible. But for the most part the scientists take non-existence for granted and want to get from "there to here", and that is not possible. Nothing does not become something. And even if you accept Swami Vivekananda's point of view that the Universe is the Absolute seen through the screen of time, space and causation, still you cannot ask how that became this. The Absolute does not become the Universe. It is only an appearance, a misinterpretation. "When will they ever learn?"

The question is not, "How did that become this?", but, "Why do I continue to see it this way?" And that comes down through a long line of ancestry as a genetic predilection. The undividedness which shows in matter as gravity shows in us as love, but the genes have us chase it in ways that give rise to offspring. This doesn't require an explanation. The infinite which shows in matter as electrical charge shows in us as our yearning for freedom, but the genes have us chase it by eating and breathing and keeping the body strong and well. And the changeless which shows in matter as inertia shows in us as our yearning for peace and security for the body. These are prime directives of our genetic programming which have come down to us from a distant past through a long line of ancestors who followed the dictates of the genes. But because of our long sojourn at the beach in Africa a few million years ago, our children don't follow the prime directives of the genetic programming. They neither procure their own food nor pass on the genetic code, and neither do monks and nuns.

Science is a map to tell us where we are and how we got there. Religion is a journey. But there needn't be a conflict between the cartographer and the pilgrim.


QUESTION #2: What are your views on human ends, especially as this relates to the framework of cosmic beginnings?

The aim of science is to make a better map, and what is needed is a better understanding of the first cause. The aim of religion is to help the pilgrims on their way, to help them see beyond the screen, and what is needed is a better map by which to chart the journey. Both science and religion are investigations into the nature of the world and our place in it. How did we get here, and where do we go? What is also needed it the simple recognition that we are all pilgrims on whatever paths, headed for the same goal. Our problem now is to get beyond the thralldom of the genes, to discriminate between the underlying existence and the apparition, between the real and the make-believe, and to let the make believe go. Individually, we can do it even now. Can we do it as a race? Will our genetic programming ever reach a point where this is easier?

John L. Dobson, December, 1993

Tips Perniagaan Online

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1.Belajar membina minisite/website/blog bagi tujuan perniagaan. Ini adalah langakah permulaan untuk memulakan perniagaan online.

2.Jangan takut untuk mencuba melakukan sesuatu yang baru.

3.Perlu ada keyakinan diri untuk memulakan perniagaan

4.Jangan amalkan sifat suka bertangguh.

5.Perlu rajin bertanya kepada mereka yang sudah berjaya

6.Jangan mudah teperdaya dengan jual beli di internet.
Siasat dulu latar belakang individu atau syarikat tersebut.

7.Kaji teknik usahawan internet yang berjaya

8.Perlu ada komitment yang tinggi

9.Pandai menjalin hubungan perniagaan di internet.

Ustazah terlanjur

Posted by | Posted on 7:14 PM

KUALA LUMPUR: Dia seorang ustazah bertudung labuh yang berkelulusan dalam bidang agama dari sebuah universiti di Timur Tengah, sebelum ini mengajar di sebuah masjid dan sebuah sekolah rendah di Kota Tinggi, Johor, serta bersuamikan seorang ustaz yang disegani di daerah itu.

Bagaimanapun, di sebalik perwatakan lembut dan alim, ustazah berusia 35 tahun itu sanggup menconteng arang di muka keluarga dan suaminya, apabila ditangkap khalwat bersama seorang duda sebayanya, yang juga bekas rakan sekolahnya dan suami.


Ustazah yang memiliki latar belakang yang kuat berpegang kepada ajaran agama itu memberi alasan kononnya dia tertekan akibat suaminya berpoligami sehingga sanggup menjalinkan hubungan cinta dengan duda terbabit dan lebih mengejutkan, mereka dipercayai pernah beberapa kali terlanjur.


Tembelang ustazah terbabit pecah apabila dia ditangkap khalwat ketika berdua-duaan dengan duda itu, baru-baru ini dan mereka dilaporkan mengambil masa hampir setengah jam sebelum membuka pintu rumah kedai yang didiami dengan kedua-duanya dalam keadaan berpakaian lengkap.


Menurut sumber, lebih menyedihkan, ketika kejadian, suami ustazah terbabit berada di Makkah untuk menunaikan haji.


Katanya, sejurus ditangkap berkhalwat, ustazah terbabit menghubungi suaminya untuk memaklumkan kejadian dan terus meminta cerai.

Menurutnya, ustazah terbabit dan suaminya berkahwin pada 1997, tetapi tidak dikurniakan cahaya mata menyebabkan mereka mengambil dua anak angkat termasuk seorang daripadanya dipelihara sejak kecil.


“Wanita itu bertemu dengan duda yang juga bekas rakan sekolahnya ketika perlawanan boling pada awal tahun lalu dan sejak itu hubungan mereka semakin rapat apabila lelaki itu menjadi tempatnya mencurah perasaan dan menagih simpati.


“Ustazah itu memberitahu duda terbabit kononnya dia tertekan kerana suami berkahwin lain sedangkan sebelum ini, dia sendiri bersetuju serta membenarkan suaminya berpoligami dan mereka sama-sama ke mahkamah untuk menguruskan perkahwinan itu.


“Tetapi, sebagai seorang yang ada latar belakang agama, hubungan dengan lelaki lain bukan cara untuk mengatasi tekanan lebih-lebih lagi dia masih berstatus isteri orang dan perhubungan itu mendekatkan mereka dengan maksiat,” katanya.


Sumber itu berkata, selepas ditangkap, duda itu pula mengaku dia pernah terlanjur dengan wanita berkenaan, tetapi di pihak ustazah terbabit, dia masih mahu ‘menegakkan benang basah’ dan menyebarkan berita kononnya dia dianiaya.


Menurutnya, demi menjaga nama baik keluarga dan maruah isteri, suami ustazah terbabit membuat pengakuan kononnya membenarkan duda terbabit menjemput isterinya yang baru pulang daripada rombongan sekolah, sebelum mereka ditangkap khalwat.


Katanya, ketika ditangkap, pasangan terbabit memberi alasan duda terbabit datang untuk menghantarnya pulang ke rumah dan membantu mengangkat beg.


Sementara itu, Harian Metro difahamkan, ustazah terbabit dan pasangannya akan dihadapkan ke Mahkamah Rendah Syariah Kota Tinggi, pada 22 Mac ini, atas tuduhan berkhalwat.

Misteri: Sihir berantai Afrika

Posted by | Posted on 3:54 AM

Salakan anjing, bunyi gendang iringi kematian mengerikan anak kapal, keluarga aniaya hamba abdi

PADA abad ke-18, bandar raya Liverpool menjadi mewah menerusi apa yang digelar 'kapal keaiban' yang mengangkut berjuta-juta abdi kulit hitam Afrika ke Amerika Syarikat dan Hindia Barat. Koloni Dunia Baru yang pantas membangun itu memerlukan banyak tenaga kerja dan ahli perniagaan England berasakan lelaki, wanita dan kanak-kanak kulit hitam Afrika boleh memenuhi permintaan pekerja.

Kira-kira 10 juta abdi Afrika dibawa menyeberangi Lautan Atlantik dalam keadaan sukar dengan setiap seorang dikurung dalam ruang lebih kecil daripada keranda. Kaki mereka dirantai antara satu sama lain dan perlu berkubang dengan kekotoran setiap masa selama berbulan-bulan. Tidak hairanlah jika kadar kematian tinggi adalah perkara biasa dalam kapal yang mengangkut abdi.

Hamba abdi yang sakit dan nazak dianggap satu kerugian kepada orang tengah dan ramai penduduk Afrika yang disyaki sakit dibuang ke laut untuk menjadi makanan jerung. Namun sudah menjadi hukum alam, kezaliman tidak selamanya bermaharajalela dan satu-satu persatu kisah aneh yang berkaitan dengan kekejaman tersingkap. Ia bermula pada tahun 1783, apabila sebuah kapal abdi dinamakan Amelia mengangkut manusia dari pelabuhan Old Calabar di Nigeria.

Di antara lelaki, wanita dan kanak-kanak yang diculik dan diambil secara paksa dari negara mereka, ada seorang budak lelaki berusia 13 tahun bernama Abu dan bapa saudaranya, Obah - lelaki buta yang boleh berbahasa Inggeris. Dalam pelayaran itu, Abu diserang sawan dan Obah merayu simpati krew kapal memberikan sedikit air kepada anak saudaranya itu. Sayangnya, permintaan Obah tidak dipedulikan yang memaksa dia dan beberapa abdi lain, bertindak menggoncangkan rantai ikatan mereka sebagai membantah.

Kapten Mallard, yang mengemudi Amelia, marah dengan keadaan itu dan akibatnya hamba abdi yang menunjuk perasaan disebat. Abu tidak terkecuali dan pitam. Obah terus merayu Abu diberi air dan memberi penjelasan anak saudaranya itu kerap diserang sawan yang memberikan dia kelebihan melihat apa yang akan terjadi pada masa depan.

Abu ialah satu-satunya anak lelaki kepada ahli sihir puaknya dan jika budak itu tidak dibawa balik ke Nigeria, sumpahan ngeri akan berlaku kepada pengemudi Amelia. Apabila Kapten Mallard mendengar penjelasan itu, dia menggenggam buku lali Abu dan mula menghayunkan kanak-kanak malang itu. Abu menjerit dan Obah cuba menyerang Mallard. Tiba-tiba Mallard mengheret Abu ke hujung kapal dan melemparkan budak itu ke dalam laut. Obah menangis dan dibawa ke bawah serta dirantai sekali lagi. Ketika rantai dipasang, lelaki berkenaan menuding jari ke arah Mallard dan berkata: "Aku sumpah kau! Aku sumpah kau dan keluarga kau!"

Tidak lama selepas kepulangan Mallard ke Liverpool, nasib malang dan kejadian pelik mula menghantuinya dan keluarganya. Anak sulungnya, Matthew, yang mempunyai kediaman berhampiran pantai di Formby, menjadi gila selepas memberitahu isterinya bahawa seekor anjing hitam dengan mata merah menyala merenungnya ketika bersiar di pantai. Matthew dimasukkan ke pusat tahanan mental tidak lama selepas itu.

Beberapa minggu kemudian, Mallard terbangun pada tengah malam apabila mendengar pukulan gendang pelik dari kejauhan. Jirannya turut mendengar bunyi aneh itu tetapi tiada siapa tahu dari mana sumbernya. Tiga malam kemudian, irama membingitkan itu berhenti tiba-tiba tepat jam 4.15 pagi dan Mallard kemudian mengetahui ibunya yang menetap di Frederick Street meninggal dunia pada waktu sama.

Sebulan kemudian, pukulan gendang sama mengganggu tidur Mallard sekali lagi. Kali ini dia bangun dan mendapati isterinya terbaring berlumuran darah di sebelahnya. Wanita itu mengalami keguguran dan hampir meragut nyawa.

Terganggu dengan kejadian itu, Mallard memutuskan untuk kembali belayar bagi melenyapkan nasib malangnya itu. Dia menjadi kapten h kapal, Moonrise, yang belayar ke Littleton, New Zealand. Mallard bakal membawa balik bekalan kapas dan daging kambing beku dari New Zealand apabila secara tiba-tiba kapalnya hilang tanpa dikesan.

Kira-kira 26 tahun kemudian, sebuah kapal Britain, Horizon, mengesan sebuah kapal besar di persisiran pantai Chile dan sebaik menghampiri kapal itu, krew melihat perkataan Moonrise. Banyak tengkorak di atasnya dan anak kapal itu dipercayai meninggal dunia kerana sakit puluhan tahun lalu.

Apabila berita penemuan mengejutkan kapal yang sudah lama hilang itu tiba ke pengetahuan isteri Mallard, yang ketika itu dalam lingkungan usia 60-an, dia pengsan kerana terkejut. Dia memberitahu doktor yang merawatnya bahawa suaminya disumpah sehingga mati kerana membunuh anak lelaki seorang ahli sihir. Pada saat kematian wanita itu pada jam 3.00 pagi, tujuh orang yang berada di sisinya mendengar salakan anjing. Kisah aneh itu dilaporkan dalam akhbar tempatan.


Happy Bezday to MAK

Posted by | Posted on 10:05 PM

Hari ini genap sudah usia ibuku 41 tahun...Dalam usia yang sedemikian,rasenya sudah banyak pekara yang dia tempoh..Usaha dan kerja keras untuk membesarkan aku dan adik- adik aku adalah satu pergorbanan yang tidak ternilai.

Walaupun sudah banyak kesalahan yang aku lakukan, tetapi mak masih lagi memaafkan aku. Sepatutnya hari ini aku berada di rumah bersama dia...memberi kucupan mesra dan meraikan hari jadinya...tetapi apakan daya dek kerana tugasan yang terpaksa aku lakukan..terpaksa aku menangguh perjalanan pulang..

Mak...terima kasih sebab sudi menjaga saya sehingga ke hari ini...

Mak, ucapan terimakasih saya tidak hanya di hari ini saja, walaupun hari ini hari jadi mak, tapi bagi saya semua hari yang ada adalah untuk mak… walaupun walaupun sering membuat kekecewaan baru, namun saya berjanji untuk selalu memperbaiki diri.


yang dikasihi anakmu.....

Gadget Pilihan Hatiku

Posted by | Posted on 1:51 AM



Acer Aspire 4740G-432G50


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Actually laptop nie..aku ngah paky skunk...lpz laptop acer timeline aku ilang dlu...
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